Describe a situation where you found yourself dealing with an individual who did not like you. How did you handle it?
A difficult thing to accept in life is the fact that
some people will dislike you no matter how you are or behave. The reasons
for someone disliking you may be unfair, though when it has been evident,
I have sought out the colleagues or team members of the person who has
shown a dislike for me and sought to make friends with people in this
group. By building a good reputation with colleagues, my hope has been
for the name person to have a difference of opinion about me.
Another tactic I employ involves trying to find things
I like about the person by making a
This allows me the comfort to feel positive towards this certain person and help ease some of the tension/friction between us and deal with tricky situations.
By taking charge and controlling elements of communication with this person, the aim is always to improve the situation and relationship.
Overall, when I have encountered these situations, I have used the relevant steps and ultimately have always seen progress which in turn has helped boost my confidence allowed me to communicate better within teams and groups.